laepelba |
November 16, 2009 06:10 PM |
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Originally Posted by poli
(Post 61667)
Huéped is the guest. Anfitrión is the host. I think anfitrion is English too (by way of Greece), but as you know nobody uses the term.
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Thanks - in fact, I have never heard the word "anfitrion". But my vocabulary in English is minuscule!!
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Originally Posted by Perikles
(Post 61669)
They both derive from hospitem, acc. Latin hospes, host, stranger, guest. The connection between host and guest is an ancient one, no doubt because it was based on reciprocity in that if you had someone as guest, it was understood that you could then be their guest. Confusing.
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I actually don't think it's confusing. What I DO think is that American's don't really *get* hospitality. On my trips to Africa, when hosted in someone's home or when visiting someone's place of employment, they were PROFUSE in their expression of gratitude. It is my experience that the guest thanks the host (in the USA). But after experiencing the culture in Kenya, I realized that the host is MOST grateful for the guest gracing their home/workplace/etc. with their presence. My presence in their home was a blessing to them! Most humbling to realize how backwards my thinking about American hospitality is. NOW, when I have the opportunity to have guests, I am certainly most grateful ... and am thrilled to entertain in my home. I have even made the guest bedroom the most comfortable room in my home (I hope!) and I try to keep the attitude that even if it's a little inconvenient for me, I will even be happy (truly happy) to welcome even last-minute guests.
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