White girl dating a hispanic boy

[sturmzie]

I am a white girl dating a hispanic boy and I love him. But my question is how do you know if they are using you or lying to get their papers so they can come and go from mexico legally? I know that most guys aren't like this don't worry I am not racist bu you never know some are. Anyone have any advice on red flags about things like this because you never know if someone is using you or playing you.

[Rusty]

I think you should always trust your gut. I believe we all get feelings or notions we can't shake. I don't think I've ever been misled by those types of feelings.
So, my advice would be to follow your gut on this.

[Villa]

Originally Posted by sturmzie

I am a white girl dating a hispanic boy and I love him. But my question is how do you know if they are using you or lying to get their papers so they can come and go from mexico legally? I know that most guys aren't like this don't worry I am not racist bu you never know some are. Anyone have any advice on red flags about things like this because you never know if someone is using you or playing you.

Find out if he has another girlfriend/wife and kids in Mexico or here. My friend married a guy from Michoacan, Mexico who didn't have papeles/undocumented/illegal and later found out he had another wife and two kids. She found out after she had two kids herself with him. My friend divorced him and he then had another kid with the other woman. They are friends now más o menos. She had to sue for child support.