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Would this be offensive?


Chris November 14, 2010 05:59 PM
Would this be offensive?
 
The other day I was going to the grocery store and parked beside a car. When I turned my engine off I could hear the car beside me turning over but not cranking. When I got out I was asked by an older woman if I had a gas can. This woman clearly spoke Spanish, because that's what she and the younger girl spoke to each other. I said, "No, I'm sorry I don't have one." and walked off. After I stepped away I realized what I could have spoken in Spanish. "No tengo nada." Would this have been offensive? I'm not entirely comfortable speaking to people in Spanish so I'd be opening myself up for embarrassment. I'm okay with that but I wouldn't want to offend anyone.

AngelicaDeAlquezar November 14, 2010 07:36 PM
It wouldn't be offensive if you keep the polite "I'm sorry" you used in English, like in "lo siento, no tengo". :)

irmamar November 15, 2010 12:53 AM
You can add: "I'm studying Spanish" (estoy estudiando español). Surely you'll get a smile. ;) :)

maravilloso November 16, 2010 04:36 AM
I thunk if you keep it polite it is not offensive. When I go to restaurants I will order in Spanish. It shows respect for their language, at least that is what I think. Especically if they don't speak English well and you seethem struggling with it. Again this is my opinion. :)

poli November 16, 2010 05:41 AM
Mi regla es si hablan inglés mejor que hablo español, uso inglés.

aleCcowaN November 16, 2010 06:53 AM
"No tengo nada" sounds harsh, as if you were asked for something and you answered adding that "nada" meaning "don't ask about any other thing, I can't help you". I know it would be a short for "Lo siento mucho pero no tengo nada con lo que pueda ayudarle en este problema", but it sounds that way. "Lo siento, pero no tengo eso" is a good generic way to say you can't provide a requested item.

By the way, it's a very good practise to think what would one answer in (Spanish/English) to every question one can be asked on the street in (English/Spanish). I learnt it in the States after answering a dozen times "I'm sorry. I'm a foreign tourist", not a daring way to develop my English.

Chris November 20, 2010 02:07 PM
That's good to know.

Equis November 25, 2010 05:25 PM
it doesn't matter, as long as your not saying it sarcastically or anything. latinos love when other people are learning/speaking their language, trust me !

dusanman January 27, 2011 03:08 AM
next time give it a try
 
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Originally Posted by Equis (Post 100543)
it doesn't matter, as long as your not saying it sarcastically or anything. latinos love when other people are learning/speaking their language, trust me !
yes thats very true, every ethnicum likes when you are trying to speak them language. If your tone wouldnt be starchy and you added smile :D , although you would use ridicullous grammer/fraze you would get the smile and appreciation back ;)

Sancho Panther February 05, 2011 05:20 AM
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Originally Posted by aleCcowaN (Post 99810)
"No tengo nada" sounds harsh, as if you were asked for something and you answered adding that "nada" meaning "don't ask about any other thing, I can't help you". I know it would be a short for "Lo siento mucho pero no tengo nada con lo que pueda ayudarle en este problema", but it sounds that way. "Lo siento, pero no tengo eso" is a good generic way to say you can't provide a requested item.

By the way, it's a very good practise to think what would one answer in (Spanish/English) to every question one can be asked on the street in (English/Spanish). I learnt it in the States after answering a dozen times "I'm sorry. I'm a foreign tourist", not a daring way to develop my English.

Well said - couldn't have put it better myself!

Caballero February 05, 2011 08:49 AM
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Mi regla es si hablan inglés mejor que hablo español, uso inglés.
If I did that, I would only be able to practice Spanish on people in real life about once a year. My way is to try respond in Spanish as much as I can. If I don't know how to say it in Spanish, I say it in English. I leave it up to them how much Spanish and English they speak to me. If they say something I don't understand, I ask them to repeat it in English, and then I try to respond in Spanish.

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it doesn't matter, as long as your not saying it sarcastically or anything
Sometimes I don't know how my intonation comes off, because it takes a lot of brain power to use different intonation from English on top of everything else.

CrOtALiTo February 05, 2011 07:34 PM
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Originally Posted by Caballero (Post 104714)
If I did that, I would only be able to practice Spanish on people in real life about once a year. My way is to try respond in Spanish as much as I can. If I don't know how to say it in Spanish, I say it in English. I leave it up to them how much Spanish and English they speak to me. If they say something I don't understand, I ask them to repeat it in English, and then I try to respond in Spanish.



Sometimes I don't know how my intonation comes off, because it takes a lot of brain power to use different intonation from English on top of everything else.
Then you tell us that works for you right?

Caballero February 05, 2011 08:54 PM
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Originally Posted by CrOtALiTo (Post 104733)
Then you tell us that works for you right?
You mean as opposed to only speaking Spanish to Spanish speakers that know less English than I know Spanish? That would be just about all of the ones around here. Of course it works. I'd never learn anything simply speaking to Spanish speakers in English. If they don't understand something I say, I can say that phrase in English, and if I don't understand something they say in Spanish, I can ask them to repeat it in English, and then I will try to respond back to them in Spanish. The only time I don't try at to speak Spanish to Spanish speakers in real life, is when I feel too shy and embarassed to try to speak Spanish.

CrOtALiTo February 05, 2011 11:28 PM
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Originally Posted by Caballero (Post 104735)
You mean as opposed to only speaking Spanish to Spanish speakers that know less English than I know Spanish? That would be just about all of the ones around here. Of course it works. I'd never learn anything simply speaking to Spanish speakers in English. If they don't understand something I say, I can say that phrase in English, and if I don't understand something they say in Spanish, I can ask them to repeat it in English, and then I will try to respond back to them in Spanish. The only time I don't try at to speak Spanish to Spanish speakers in real life, is when I feel too shy and embarassed to try to speak Spanish.

Don't worry for that.

I can understand your situation clearly


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