Cual tipo de subjuctivo?

[Jellybaby]

¿Cómo se dice...?

"The idea was that they would come here often to spend a day at our house or to meet in Valencia. (But it's not going to happen like that.)
"La idea era que vinieran aquí a pasar un día en nuestra casa muy a menudo o que vinieran a quedarnos en valencia. (Pero no va a pasar así.)

"I was hoping that I would stop."
"Estaba esperando que dejara."

"I had thought that they would come but they're not going to be able to in the end."
"Había pensado que vendrían pero al final no van a poder."